Monday, October 20, 2014

Reality Check

"Many can argue that reality is as it is, but my experience is that the opposite is exactly true. Reality is ours for the making." -  Asara Lovejoy

I often use the term “Perception is reality”  but that only holds true for the person who is looking into the situation and not the person whose actually living them.  With that being said, I’m wishing you a week of creating and living your own reality, not someone else's.
Luv yall

Monday, November 4, 2013

This goes out to all the side chicks and jump offs

Ode to a Jump off
How ever loyal you may be
You'll always be stuck in the land of maybe
Maybe he'll call today
Maybe he'll come by and once we finish fucking....
Maybe I'll lay here real still and maybe if I don't breathe he'll sleep till morning and spend the night
Maybe he'll call me tomorrow
Maybe if I have this baby he'll be with only me
Maybe if I beg and cry he'll stay
Maybe if I start this fight he'll stay longer
Maybe if I threaten to tell his wife he'll show me more attention and,
Maybe if I call her she'll leave him and then...
Maybe he'll come to me
Maybe if I believe his lies they'll eventually become the truth
Maybe if I talk shit about his wife he'll realize I'm the one for him
Maybe if I do the shit his wife won't do he'll realize I'm really the one for him
Maybe if I listen to him talk about her when he's mad, he'll realize what he's saying and,
Maybe he'll leave her and then
Maybe I'll graduate to his main chick. Maybe, maybe, maybe....

But here's the reality...
Maybe if you stop falling for the bullshit you won't feel like shit when he goes home to his life
Maybe if you stop smashing other women's husband you would finally realize your self worth.
Maybe if he really loved you he wouldn't leave you alone on holidays and birthdays
Maybe if you knew the difference between sex and love you would stop waiting
Maybe if you do your research you would know that 70% of men cheat on their wives and less then 5% of them leave their home for the jump off, side chick, mistress or whatever your name is
Maybe if you stopped chasing married men, and wait on the "right" man you'll finally have your "own" man.

I'm just sayin....

Luv y'all

Monday, October 28, 2013


"Vision without action is daydream. Action without vision is nightmare."—Japanese Proverb
Wishing you a week of Visions with progress...
Luv Yall

Monday, October 21, 2013

Stop Wasting Time!!

Yesterday I heard someone say "Stop wasting time!!!" and started thinking about how I've spent my time as of late. So with that being said. It's time to get busy being productive again.

Wishing you a week of productivity. #Grinding

Monday, September 30, 2013

To speak and to speak well are two things

I'm going back to adding my Monday Quotes.....And this one couldn't be more fitting!!!

"To speak and to speak well are two things. A fool may talk, but a wise man speaks." -Ben Jonson: Jacobean playwright, poet, and literary critic
Enough Said. 
Wishing you a week of speaking well.
Love Yall - V

Tuesday, July 9, 2013


Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity. - Martin Luther King, Jr.

Monday, July 8, 2013

You are the master of your destiny

"You are the master of your destiny. You can influence, direct and control your own environment. You can make your life what you want it to be."— Napoleon Hill

Someone once told me that no one else but you is responsible for your happiness or healing. At the time I was too busy wallowing in my own hurt and pain to really come to grips with that statement. But after the dust settled I realized how true that it is with EVERYTHING in life. No one is responsible for YOU but YOU!!! So when things go wrong, it is you who has to take responsibility. When things go right, pat yourself on the back. When you are sad, unhappy or down, no one but you can make yourself feel better.

Lastly, you are the master of your own fate and the ruler of your own destiny, NO ONE ELSE. So if you let other people’s words, actions, decision and bullshit effect your life……Stop it, cause they are not the master’s of your destiny.. YOU ARE!!

Here’s wishing you a week of mastering you destiny.. Luv Yall - V